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booty call.

A call or message seeking a casual sexual encounter; the phrase can also refer to the encounter or the person contacted.

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01 / THE MEANING

What does booty call mean?

A booty call is a communication seeking a sexual encounter. The wording includes call, but the documented sense can also cover a similar message rather than a literal telephone conversation.

The phrase has related person and encounter senses. Calling someone a booty call can reduce a relationship to sexual convenience, so it may sound dismissive. A late message by itself does not establish that purpose; the content and the people’s own understanding matter.

02 / IN THE CONVERSATION

See how it lands.

Original examples written for this entry, not quotations from the sources.

EXAMPLE 01
She said the message felt like a booty call.
In plain EnglishShe thought the message was seeking a casual sexual encounter.The sentence attributes the interpretation to the recipient.
EXAMPLE 02
He did not want their friendship reduced to a booty call.
In plain EnglishHe did not want the relationship treated as a source of casual sex.This illustrates the dismissive person-or-arrangement reading.
03 / READ THE ROOM

The right word.
The right moment.

A GOOD FIT

Use it when accurately interpreting an explicit description or quotation. In a serious discussion, explain the actual request rather than relying on a dismissive label.

MIND THE CONTEXT

Avoid assuming that every late-night message has a sexual purpose or applying the person label to someone who has not chosen it.

04 / THE IMPORTANT DIFFERENCES

Not quite the same as…

FWB

FWB names a friendship arrangement involving sexual intimacy. A booty call names a communication, encounter or person in a more situational and potentially dismissive way.

05 / WHERE IT COMES FROM

A little backstory.

The linked reference documents this meaning. This entry does not establish a single inventor or a first-use date; a dictionary record and a current popularity measurement answer different questions.

Supported by Wiktionary contributors

06 / QUICK ANSWERS

Still wondering?

Does it have to be a phone call?

No. The expression can extend to a message or similar communication seeking a sexual encounter. The literal device is not the central point.

Can booty call refer to a person?

Yes. That related use can sound especially objectifying or dismissive, so preserve the speaker’s tone when explaining it.

THE RECEIPTS

Sources & checks

Meaning and factual notes are informed by the references below. Examples and usage advice are original editorial writing. A source documents use; it does not measure current popularity.

  1. booty call — meaning and usage ↗Wiktionary contributors · checked 20 Oct 2026Supports: meaning; distinct senses
Checked 20 Oct 2026Research-assisted launch entry
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